Ontario Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
You are not alone.
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
Welcome to the Ontario Intergroup website for SLAA. You are not alone.
How can SLAA help?
Twelve Step groups work because of action: Action taken by the recovering person
to learn how to live our lives a little better each day, to make positive
choices, to release old behaviors, and to learn to look outside of ourselves for
help. These steps, these actions, work if you work them.
The Twelve Steps of SLAA
- We admitted we were powerless over sex and love addiction — that our lives had
- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we
- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
- Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of
- Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
- Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.
- Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to
- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would
injure them or others.
- Continued to take a personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted
- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with a
power greater than ourselves, praying only for knowledge of God's will for us
and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry
this message to sex and love addicts, and to practice these principles in all
areas of our lives.
The Twelve Traditions of SLAA
- Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon S.L.A.A. unity.
- For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority -- a loving God as this Power may be expressed through our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.
- The only requirement for S.L.A.A. membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of
sex and love addiction. Any two or more persons gathered together for mutual aid in
recovering from sex and love addiction may call themselves an S.L.A.A. group, provided
that as a group they have no other affiliation.
- Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or S.L.A.A.
as a whole.
- Each group has but one primary purpose -- to carry its message to the sex and love
addict who still suffers.
- An S.L.A.A. group or S.L.A.A. as a whole ought never endorse, finance, or lend the
S.L.A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, or prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
- Every S.L.A.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
- S.L.A.A. should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ
- S.L.A.A. as such ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or
- S.L.A.A. has no opinion on outside issues; hence the S.L.A.A. name ought never be
drawn into public controversy.
- Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always
maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, TV, film, and other public media.
We need guard with special care the anonymity of all fellow S.L.A.A. members.
- Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place
principles before personalities.
Stopping addictive and emotional behavior
- Attend meetings
- Make use Toronto Message Line: 416-486-8201 |
- See Chapter 4 of our Basic Text "The Twelve Step Program: A Path to Sexual and Emotional Sobriety".
- See Chapter 5 of our Basic Text "The Withdrawal Experience".
- See Chapter 8 of our Basic Text "Building Partnerships.